Monkey Porridge

Harrison wakes up earrrrrrly. Neither Tyler or myself would proclaim ourselves as early risers, but we have to now. (At least one of us does at a time. We take turns getting up with him every other morning which really helps ease the pain.)

On my mornings sitting in the dark daylight hours with him, I often get ambitious with breakfast. This is mainly out of boredom, but it's actually given me the time to think through what we eat a bit more than I had before... and has given me some extra creativity in the kitchen beyond my countless years of cereal.

These days, I'm cooking up pancakes and french toast with fruity compotes made from whatever frozen berries we have in the freezer. I'm whipping up cream to smear on toasted brioche, or concocting smoothie bowls or yoghurt bowls with a covering similar in size to that of a 6 year-old's FroYo cup. Its kinda like arts & crafts time for me... except I'm pulling through my dry good canisters and deep freeze rather than my glue sticks and paper racks.

Recently I posted an Instagram of our porridge and had several people message me for the recipe. My recipe? Umm, there's not really a recipe... but I figured I could walk you through the toppings to help you make your own.

And just in case "porridge" makes you think of some exotic British meal... it's just what we call oatmeal here. So... yeah, you're now one step closer to unlocking the mystery of Monkey Porridge. Follow along for the rest of the story!


MONKEY PORRIDGE

What you'll need:

  • Oats

  • Water

  • Salt

  • Cinnamon

  • Peanut Butter

  • Bananas

  • Almonds

  • Honey

  • Chia Seeds (if you have them)

  • Bee Pollen (if you have it)

Cook oats according to instructions. (Use steel cut or good quality old-fashioned oats. None of that microwave nonsense. It's time you learned how to make the easiest meal ever.)

Add some salt. Add some cinnamon. Add some more cinnamon because it makes it so dang good. Stir everything in and let it cook.

Stir on medium-low and cook it slow. (I plan to cook mine for around 15 minutes.) It's not a race.

While the porridge is cooking, chop up a handful of almonds and put them in a skillet to toast over low heat. (Keep a watch on them- they seemingly sit forever and then turn black when you stop watching them.)

After your porridge is done, put it in bowls. Stir in a spoonful of peanut butter to each bowl.

Top with sliced bananas, chia seeds, shredded/desiccated coconut, bee pollen, roasted almonds and a drizzle of honey.

Serve with a hot mug of coffee and feel really smug that you have an insanely good breakfast that is great for your body and a good way to keep your weekly grocery bill on budget.


So, like I promised, it's not rocket science... but it is a fun way to make regular old oatmeal less boring and into something that is really quite tasty. Check out my other recipes here.



*images original to Aspiring Kennedy

Posted on May 19, 2017 .

A Dummies Guide to Iceland (With Kids)

This spring, I’ve been B U S Y with travel consults. It’s definitely the most chaotic time of the year for me as summer approaches and so many people are getting their trips ready for the months ahead. While the bulk of people come for help with vacations for the UK & France, I have to say- Iceland is quickly becoming a big contender for the most popular destination.

While it definitely appeals to the young traveler- it is equally as popular with young families. And, as someone who has brought her own small children with her for the past five years on repeat trips there, I can easily vouch for why it is a fantastic spot to travel with children.

For anyone that is planning to come to Iceland, I thought I’d give you a few basic facts that either are asked often by clients or that I have learned from being there year after year. I figured there would be endless resources online for families planning a trip to Iceland echoing these same thoughts, but when I actually checked- everything was several years old… and now wrong! With the increase in tourism over the past few years, things have changed and I figured I would give some updated and specific pointers that really can change how you plan your family trip to Iceland.


1. CHILDREN UNDER TWO ARE NO LONGER ALLOWED IN THE BLUE LAGOON

I hate to charge in straight away with this bummer, but I have yet to talk to a person going to Iceland who doesn’t plan to visit the legendary Blue Lagoon. This is a real bummer, as I’ve always brought my babies in the lagoon with me. However, with the growing popularity and increase in visitors, there is now a VERY strict rule that children under two aren’t allowed in. You can swap off on who has the baby, but the lifeguards will (basically) yell at you if you bring a little baby in the lagoon that is under the age limit. 

If you’re still looking for a similar experience, you can always try another lagoon in Iceland. There is the “Secret Lagoon,” also known as Gamla Laugin, that (as of 2016) allows little ones. Or you can head to any of Iceland’s local pools where kids are not only welcome, but will have amenities to really entertain them…. for about $3 per person. Not only will you be with 100% real Icelanders, but you’ll get a great view at the (admittedly, quirky) fact of culture of life in Iceland: they are obsessed with swimming and go to their local pools frequently throughout the week!

 

2. YOU CAN RENT CAR SEATS FROM RENTAL CAR AGENCIES AT THE AIRPORT

Many people seem to feel restricted by the thought of checking car seats and having to schlep their own car seats all the way from the US. I feel that. It’s a hassle. The good news is, you can rent one with your rental car and skip having the hassle of bringing your own. Just check in advance, but there is typically a giant rack of them ready to distribute when you get your keys.

If you aren’t renting your own car, I’d recommend bringing your own car seats. Taxis WON’T drive your children unless they are in a car seat. While countries like the UK & France have loopholes to allow for children to ride in their parents’ laps in taxis, Iceland has strict laws that prohibit driving children without a carseat. (I’ve learned this the hard way!)

3. ICELAND IS VERY KID FRIENDLY

The good news is: Iceland has been kid friendly and, from all we have seen on our recent visits, continues to be so as the country booms in popularity. Sure, now there are some chic restaurants that wouldn’t be the best place to bring your toddler, but for the most part- the country is geared for little ones. Hotels are happy to put baby beds in room, when they have been requested in advance. Rental car companies can provide car seats, again when they have been requested in advance. While some countries feel a bit stuffier to the notion of bringing along a baby with you, Iceland is a great place to take the kids for their first trip abroad as the culture is still unique… but with enough personal space and freedom to give young families flexibility without a scornful eye.

 

4. PACK A SNACK

I know this sounds silly, but if you have room to bring some snacks for your kids- you’ll save yourself some serious cash by avoiding stuff in the gas stations and grocery stores. As you’ll most likely know or have heard, Iceland is EXPENSIVE. With the high value of the krona combined with the unceasing demand of tourists, the Iceland people are raking in the cash. They have no incentive to keep their food at normal prices when tourists will keep shovelling money their way. Save your money for good meals out, and don’t fond yourself tearing up over the absence cost of granola bars and bottled water. (PS. All tap water in Iceland is 100% perfect. Just bring refillable bottles and save yourself the unnecessary expense… and having the locals giggle at you for paying for bottled water when you can get the same out of the tap.)

5. ICELANDAIR IS GREAT WITH KIDS

While most people coming from the US will have to connect at some point in their journey to Iceland’s main airport in Keflavik, it’s worth considering flying with Iceland’s own airline, IcelandAir. Especially if you’re traveling with kids. While most airlines operate under the policy that all ticketed passengers pay the same fare (after all, a seat is a seat), IcelandAir has reduced fares for kids. Not only is the economic value a plus, but they are just, well, really nice to families. When kids board, they hand them a little box of food, headphones and colouring books. All seats come with personal entertainment systems, and there are plenty of options for kids. 

The other perk that IcelandAir famously offers passengers is the ability to do up to 7 days of a “lay-over” in Iceland (where all of their US-Europe flights connect anyway) for no additional fee. It was originally a marketing aim to get people to explore the country, but even now that Iceland is one of the top travel destinations- it’s still an offer to their passengers. This makes it a great stopover for families on their way to Europe, as it can help pace out the craziness of jet lag between the drastic time changes. Basically, a couple of days in Iceland doubles the fun… and halves the jet lag.

6. KIDS ARE FREE MOST PLACES

The truth is, most of the sites won’t actually charge you anyway. With the main attractions being beautiful outdoor sites, you’ll be able to walk up to most of them and enjoy them without paying a dime. However, for some of the paid outings- small children are free, too. For example, Into the Glacier is an amazing experience that we have taken my children to several times. While the site doesn’t say it, I’ve written to verify that small children are free. The company does need to know that they will be coming, so they recommend buying tickets for the adults and then writing to say that lap children (think toddlers & babies, not your 8 year old. Sorry!) will be coming, too. While they don’t need a ticket, they do need to be accounted for in the giant trucks that transfer people onto the glacier. If you’re planning for any paid excursions, its best to check with the provider. My guess is you’ll either be relieved to hear that they can join for free…. Or are too young to come with the group outing. Either way, it’s best to check in advance to avoid a busted day of travel.


Find all my travel posts for Iceland here or check out my travel guide to Iceland here.

Still want more? Book a travel consult for one-on-one with a session to help plan out your trip. 



 

*Images by Ashel Parsons for Aspiring Kennedy

Posted on May 17, 2017 and filed under iceland, travel, kids.

10 Good Places To Eat in Covent Garden

Since Covent Garden is such a great central spot in many London trips, I thought it might be helpful to put together a list of my favourite places to eat there. After all, there is no more helpful recommendation than one from someone who has actually been there approximately a gazillion times. Luckily for us all, I spend endless hours of my life right there- eating and shopping. As anyone who has been can tell you- you won't be short on options there. But it can be a bit overwhelming... so I've tried to make it easy on you. 

If you're planning a trip to London, find more of my favourite London places in my guides to London & Notting Hill


10 GREAT EATS IN COVENT GARDEN

FLAT IRON | Flat Iron has three locations, and this one just between the Covered Market and Trafalgar Square is the largest. The food is insanely good. (Which is steak, in case the name didn't give it away.) And while the atmosphere is cool and the food is too notch- you'll walk out feeling a bit stunned at how inexpensive the whole experience is. The one caveat: none of the locations take reservations. Your best bet is to go early to get as far ahead in the queue as possible... or plan to put your name on the list and keep yourself entertained elsewhere for a good hour or more while you wait for a table.

DISHOOM | Most Londoners will point you to Dishoom, if you're looking for great Indian food. Not only is the decor very cool, the central setting in Covent Garden ideal for easy access, their famous "Naughty Chai," and outstanding food keep pushing Dishoom into the limelight. On the weekend, opt for something a bit different and head their for one of London's favourite brunches. Think Naan stuffed with bacon, eggs, coriander (read: "cilantro" if you're in the US) and cream cheese.

Photo courtesy of @jeradmichael

Photo courtesy of @jeradmichael

BATTERSEA PIE STATION | I absolutely love pie & mash. While it feels perfectly British, anyone that has a bite totally connects to the concept and taste. I mean, come on: pie crust, tasty fillings, mashed potatoes and gravy? What's hard to like about that? This tiny shop on the basement floor of the covered market puts new meaning to the phrase "Pie Hole." And since I like to give unsolicited advice: my favourite is the goats cheese & sweet potato pie. 

BALTHAZAR CAFE | While many people will know that this is the result of NYC's success in he Balthazar concept, London has still rejoiced with its arrival. To be honest, the actual restaurant always leaves me a bit... meh. (The New York one, too.) But I have serious respect for their neighbouring, tiny cafe that sells incredibly authentic French items. Sandwiches, decadent desserts and casually perfect Viennosserie items. They also have a full coffee/espresso range, so please opt for this quiet stop before wandering into the Starbucks next door.

HOMESLICE IN NEALS YARD | Situated in one of the most photographed corners of London, Neals Yard, Homeslice serves up some killer pizza. Huge slices covered in a variety of toppings (from common to cool. Kale, anyone?) It's a tiny shop, but the real score is getting to sit outside on a tiny perch to enjoy the setting and people watching.

MEATMARKET | While I'm a fan of the obvious "American" approved burger joints crowning Covent Garden, I actually really like MEATMarket. While centrally located by the Covered Market, this in-the-know "dive" has a discreet sitting a level above the hustle and bustle below. This isn't a place you can be healthy, but if you're looking for something good, greasy and guy-approved- head here.

FABRIQUE BAKERY | If you're looking for coffee and a Swedish roll, which I assume most of us are, there's no finer place to get one than Fabrique. (I've blogged about the Notting Hill location before here.)

ROSEWOOD HOTEL | This may technically be across the road from "Covent Garden," but since it's so close and so wonderful- it's making the list. I love meeting friends for tea or a drink here. Whether it's their classy lunch served in the mirror room or an afterword meet up in the very cool Scarves Bar- I'm never disappointed when I venture to this palatial hotel.

MILK TRAIN | Soft serve ice cream that is covered in an endless offering of toppings and nestled in a cloud of brightly-hued candy floss (US read: "cotton candy"). The line can be long, so maybe not best the easiest place to stand around if little ones are in tow.

Photo courtesy of @media_candy

Photo courtesy of @media_candy

CICCHETTI | This restaurant is not only decorated like a gorgeous Mediterranean jewel,  but the food and experience reinforce the feeling. With small, shareable plates of authentic Italian cuisine- this is a great date spot that will both introduce you to amazing new flavours... and still offer a huge range of familiar favourites.  Service is slick and attentive. Make sure you get the full experience and get an espresso or milliner macchiato before you get the bill. Reservations recommended for dinner.

DELAUNAY COUNTER | As the little brother to the glamorous Viennese cafe, The Delaunay, situated next door, this more casual concept might almost fool you into thinking it's somehow less special. But with affordable daily specials like weiner schnitzel, fresh bakery goods like pretzels and Sacher tortes, and cosy warm drinks- you'll soon realise that the Delaunay Counter is one of the gems of Covent Garden. 


Any other Covent Garden classics that you want to add to this list? You can also find a few more area favourites on my Instagram with the hashtag #AspiringLondon.



Posted on May 11, 2017 and filed under eat, england, drink, london, notting hill.

Summer Shoes for Europe

One of the things I get asked ALL THE TIME is… “What kind of shoes should I buy/pack/bring for our trip to Europe?” It’s a loaded question, as there are so many good options, but I think the main thing people want to avoid is bringing a bad options. (Which there are infinitely more of!) So I think it’s a fair question and a good topic to address. What DO you wear for shoes when traveling?

I used to have a hard stance that you want to look as much like a local as possible… but I’ve softened my views a bit. For the main reason, you aren’t experiencing Europe like a local! Most people are walking way more than most of people who live here do in a day. You need your feet to be really comfortable in a way that those of us who live here do not. Plus, when the rain comes… you keep going. Most of us will tuck back into our offices or homes. I’ve come to be sympathetic for people trying to look local… but having to be on their feet for hours longer than we are.

Plus, I’ve realised that looking like a tourist isn’t the worst thing in the world… as long as you look like a smart one. Those people who try to wear “normal” items that aren’t practical for city life look much more ridiculous. (I’m thinking of you American girl, limping through the street in huge heels that you have never worn for more than 50 feet to and from Valet Parking.) So be a tourist… just be a cool one. In fact, cool tourists are kind of the funnest people to be around anyway.

So I’ve come up with a little round-up of shoes I would REALLY wear here in the summer. Shoes that are comfortable for walking, shoes that won’t slide on and off all day… because that’s annoying not only for you but people you’re walking with. (Experience talking!) These shoes are shoes that aren’t all gladiators and strappy ankle sandals, because… well, it’s a bit colder here. Even in the summer. So while you may have some nice days and some glorious afternoons, you’ll probably still find yourself needing shoes that get you through a morning drizzle or cloudy day.

And if you’re looking for nice shoes that you can walk to dinner and a show in? Well, I’ve tried to find some that will go the distance for you. They’ll get you there without tears, or snapping your ankle in half. (At least, that was the goal.)



*image original to Aspiring Kennedy

Posted on April 28, 2017 and filed under shopping.

Just Another Manic (and Pretty) Monday

Hello from a big bed at 2:19 in the afternoon. Harrison had a weird virus where he had a fever for five days... and then graciously passed it along to his sister. I had high hopes it would be chicken pox, because the timing would be pretty easy and it had been circling our church. But alas, we just got the nasties and have been, more or less, staying inside for the past two weeks.

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C'est la vie! It could be worse, and, if I'm honest, it has perks. Like not wearing real clothes. Or watching so, so many movies. Or not wearing real clothes. Wait, did I say that already?

After a harsh early wake-up this morning, I was feeling snappy where I begrudgingly picked up the house in a fury. (Sorry, Ty, you really are the wind beneath my wings.) But after a few hours out of the house for a coffee date and peek at the Lulu & Nat pop-up, life actually seems pretty sweet. Perspective, people. It's a gracious gift from God.

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I came home to a clean house where the kids are happy, they have food and I have a nice man repeatedly putting up with my floundering through motherhood.

Just this morning, my friend Amber & I were talking about how we once judged moms for "letting themselves go" when they had kids... and how we realise now, it's not letting themselves go. It's, simply, letting go. Knowing that every moment is perfect, and you can't keep it all perfect all the time.

So maybe today you feel like one area of life isn't as pretty as it maybe once was or your friend makes it seem. It could be your squidgy body, your dirty house that always seems chaotic because it is, or the pathetic count of unread text messages that remind you of how your disconnected social life is, or that you haven't had a conversation with your husband that didn't revolve around kids, housework or what to watch on Netflix in ages.

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Just know... you're not alone. And that what you're doing is worth it. Those opportunities can (and, I really think will) come back. It just won't be for a while. Just take a deep breath, let go, and make a conscious trade off for living in the crazy, physical today of raising little kids.



*images original to Aspiring Kennedy

Posted on April 25, 2017 .